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The Art of Confident Conversation

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The Art of Confident Conversation

by Mike Moore

When I first started speaking for a living I had great difficulty with one-on-one
conversation with members of my audience. I could speak before 2500 people and enjoy
every minute of it, but when I was expected to mix and mingle my tongue became all
thumbs. I decided to get to work improving my conversation skills and researched the
topic thoroughly. My efforts paid off for now I can speak with anyone, anywhere for any
length of time. Let me share with you what I learned.

There are three fundamental principles upon which good conversation is based.
1. It is better to be interested than interesting
2. There is nothing as flattering as the undivided attention of another human being.
3. People long to talk about their favourite topic which is “themselves.” Keep these
in mind and you can’t fail in becoming a great conversationalist.

*Assume the responsibility for starting and maintaining the conversation.
I usually begin with a friendly ” Hi, I’m Mike Moore and I’m from Canada”
Usually the response is ” Hello, Mike I am ____________ and I’m
from___________. (Away you go.)

*Use the person’s name throughout the conversation. It shows that you’re interested
in and focused on the other.

*Let the other be the centre of attention.

*Show a genuine interest in the one you’re speaking with.

*Maintain eye contact.

*Ask questions that require more than a one word answer.

*When you ask a question listen attentively to the answer and be quick to ask
another question arising from the response to the first. You learn what to say by
listening carefully to what was said.

*Put the other at ease by smiling and nodding frequently throughout the conversation.

*Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.

*Don’t feel the need to disagree until you get to know the person better.

GREAT CONVERSATION PHRASES CONVERSATION STARTERS
“That’s interesting. Tell me more.”
“Give me an example of what you mean.”
“How would you like to see it turn out?”
“How did you feel when that happened to you?”
*Give a compliment.
*Ask for advice.
*Seek help with something.
*Give praise.
*Seek an opinion.

 

I keep six honest servants
They taught me all I know.
Their names are what and why and when
And how and where and who.
R. Kipling

This is an excerpt from Mike Moore’s booklet How to Overcome Shyness and Connect with
People
available from http://motivationalplus.com/cgi/a/t.cgi?shy

Mike Moore is an international speaker and writer on humour and human health and relations.

Overcome Shyness and Connect with People

By Inspiration, Motivation, Self Confidence, Self Help, Self Improvement, Uncategorized

Unleash the Social Butterfly Within You

Are you sick and tired of being a tongue tied wallflower in every situation??
  Discover How To Overcome Shyness and Connect with People

 


Hi Friend.

My name is Mike Moore and I want to tell you my shyness story and see if it connects with yours.

When I was a teenager many moons ago I was so shy that people felt sorry for me. I was 6’3″ tall and was  130 pounds of rippling muscle.  I really did look like a broomstick with glasses.

I could be the life of the party at home with my family but out in public….NO WAY!

I remember the day I took things into my own hands and decided to do something about it.

I read dozens of books on overcoming shyness, gaining self confidence and making friends.  I made notes and started to put into practice what I had learned from my research.

My research and hard work paid off  in a very short time.  With practice and determination I went from shy guy to social butterfly.   The more people responded positively to me  the more confidence I developed and the more comfortable I felt in social situations.

Today I make my living speaking to large and small groups throughout Canada and the USA  on maximizing human potential.  I meet with CEOs and managers of large successful companies and I feel right at home sharing my ideas and opinions.

My shyness is gone and my confidence level is high. I am no better than anyone else but I am no less than anyone either.  We are all equal in dignity to everyone else on this planet.

I want the same for you.   I want you to awaken the social giant within you. I want you be become  confident and comfortable in all social situations.   I want you to let your personality shine through to others and let them enjoy the gift that you are.

I don’t want you to settle for ANYTHING LESS.

That’s why I wrote my special report ” How to Overcome Shyness and Connect with People.”  It contains all the strategies I used to overcome the terrible scourge of shyness.

Keep reading….

 

Is This You???

I feel panic in social situations

I hate people saying I’m shy in front of others even though
they are right

I feel inadequate

I wish I could be more assertive

I am tongue-tied at every a party I attend
I wish I could disappear in social settings

I am a total flop in the romance department

I never know what to say

 

STOP HIDING AND START LIVING!
Awaken Your Social Butterfly Within!

 

How to Overcome Shyness and Connect With People
By Speaker/Humorist
Mike Moore

Discover…

*  How to attract wonderful people to your life

*  The art of confident conversation
( People will say that you are one terrific conversationalist)

*  How to talk to anyone about anything

*  How to connect with people fast and effectively

*  How to satisfy peoples’  emotional needs
as well as your own

*  What to say to others by listening to what they say to you.

*How to Attract others to you

*  How to connect through humor

*  The awesome power of your smile

*   The prescription for happiness

*  How to be relaxed in any social situation

*   Effective, simple strategies to overcome shyness

*  the ” What if ” and ” So What” Factors

* How to overcome fear

*  overcome shyness

What are you waiting for?

Start living the life you want to live NOW

You were not created to be a fly on a wall

PS. Reserve your copy now and start enjoying a productive social life. You have nothing to lose and a lot of friends to gain.

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How to Overcome Shyness and Connect with People

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The Art of Confident Living

By assertiveness, dealing with difficultpeople, Inspiration, Motivation, Self Confidence, Self Help, Self Improvement

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54 pages of simple, effective strategies, tips, articles and humorous  self improvement cartoons by speaker/humorist Mike Moore

Dear Friend

Do you know that we humans only achieve a tiny percentage of out enormous untapped human potential in our lifetime? Some say  it’s between 2 and 5 percent?

Can you image the possibilities that could be open to us if we even increased that  to 25%? We could literally transform our lives and our world.

There is one thing you must have in order to achieve your potential in life and make your dreams come true and that is SELF CONFIDENCE. ( I will show you how to get all you need in a few seconds.)

There is no doubt about it…self confidence is what enables me to speak in front of 3000 people and enjoy every minute of it without being fearful or intimidated.  I also have no difficulty accepting a very healthy fee when I’m finished.

Friends, when you have abundant self confidence things in all areas of your life get better and better.

You will be able to… 
*  attract terrific people,
*  earn more money
*  be comfortable in meetings and at parties
*  start your own business
*  be admired and respected
*  be likeable
*  be more convincing
*  be comfortable when speaking in public

It just goes on and on.

SELF CONFIDENCE is a gift that keeps on giving.

The sad fact is that so few people have abundant self confidence.

You’ve got to take the bull by the horns and make the required changes. And do it sooner than later.
MY OFFER TO YOU

I would like to offer you  my  seminar notes in the form of a SPECIAL REPORT entitled ” Unleash Your Potential” ( The Art Of Confident Living) to help you live more confidently and explode your hugely untapped human potential.

You owe it to yourself and those you love to become all that you can be.

Explode your human potential NOW!!!

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